Dating/Friendships

30t nyc-based malnourished looking to get fit

First time posting, long time lurker

30T underweight
T=trans (if you're excited by the thought of me being a transwoman or excited by the thought of me being a transman, this probably won't work out.)

I recently lost 8lb putting me near alarmingly underweight, and I thought might as well have a bit of fun gaining it back (I actually have a hard time eating)

I'm going to the Bay pretty soon for physical performance and need to stay fit for my first impressions (boo, stigma)

So, this would moreso be a Mal2Fit situation and not a fat WG scenario (I know, I'm no fun)

This is unfortunately a hard line for me right now and if I feel like I'm being pushed away from that limit I will cut off all communications without warning- sorry, to not have the capacity to negotiate at this time. But, this doesn't mean we can't have fun fantasizing in the bedroom smiley

no strong personal preference to age, weight, or gender on my part - though significantly older/younger might give me pause but isn't a deal breaker.


So after all that, if you're still interested and in the NYC area- feel free to hmu

I am, also, into BDSM and other things- though I'm thinking this will have to be a short term arrangement and thus possibly a less intimate situation- though perhaps in the future when I can be less strict without jeopardizing my life pursuits

Were things to become intimate, I tend to prefer topping or frotting and am less interested in being penetrated

Not sure that anyone would be interested with all the restrictions in place, but figured it's worth a shot since I have an opportunity to dabble in it at this time.

Feel free to shoot me a message on here to my username "xillo" if you're open to it. Also, no hard feelings if I don't reply- it's probably me not you-[just dealing with a lot right now] so sorry if that were to happen, but please, don't take it personally if it does

Anyway, thanks for considering

-X
8 months